While beauty is almost as subjective as love, it's something that you can explore and discover in
yourself over time.
Define Beauty
Seek beauty around you. How do you define beauty?
As you go through your day, try to make note of things and people that strike
you as beautiful: the art, the sky, someone's freckles. If you can, write them
down. Find your beauty. Try to understand what makes them beautiful to you.
They may not be beautiful to others, but that's the reason beauty is in the eye
of the beholder.
Develop Your Inner Beauty
Recognize the beauty in yourself. Look in the mirror and search for beauty. By now,
you've probably noticed that the most beautiful things in life are often subtle
and hidden. The same goes for the beauty you hold. Maybe you have smooth,
well-proportioned hands, or a flawless forehead, or perfectly-shaped shoulders.
Whatever it is, it's yours - reveal it.
Develop your inner beauty. There are plenty of so-called beautiful people
out there who lie, cheat, steal, and even kill. This type of beauty does not
last . By finding yourself and building
your character through integrity, you can be beautiful both on the
inside and on the outside. Better yet, your inner beauty will always emanate
and never fade, wrinkle, or turn gray.
Enhance Your Physical Beauty
Enhance your physical beauty. Looking beautiful
is all about emphasizing those features in you that are already beautiful.
There are millions of ways to do this, as there are millions of potentially
beautiful features on a single body. The important thing is to experiment with
accentuating that beauty until you can look at your reflection and feel like
you've given your beauty the representation it deserves.
Add Beauty to Your Life
Create beauty outside of yourself. Now that you see
beauty and you are beautiful (as you always have been, but now know it),
it's time to make beauty. Art is a very popular emulation of beauty, but
it's possible to inject beauty into everything you do (your work, how you
interact with people, and the way you decorate your room, for example). This is
an extremely satisfying pursuit that will not only make the world a more
beautiful place, but it will also bring your quest for beauty full circle
Important…
Even
though what is considered beautiful varies from person to person, there are a
few broad characteristics that most people seem to agree on:
·
Health is beautiful. There's nothing beautiful about destroying your body,
even if you do it slowly by neglecting your body.
·
Character is beautiful. Think of the most beautiful people you know; now
imagine them spitting on a homeless person. They're not very beautiful anymore,
are they?
Tell yourself every day when you wake up: "I am
beautiful. No one can take that away from me."
If you are getting older - in your thirties, forties, or
older, you will be beautiful in a different way than a younger person. You will
have lines, perhaps scars, perhaps some grey, you may have mannerisms or ways
of moving that have become uniquely you. For a woman, you can take these
changes and either use them to feel deeper, richer, more nuanced, more sensual,
or you can feel worn down, comparing yourself to younger women.
Very important…
·
Being
fake (a form of deception) is one of the ugliest things in the world. Don't
think that in order to be beautiful, you can't be yourself.
·
Many
people have terrible judgment and don't recognize beauty when they see it. They
may say things that can hurt you, but don't let their ignorance ruin your
happiness, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't
mind.
·
Beware,
some people may also overemphasize inner beauty as the only area one should
work on enhancing. Do not believe making "adjustments" to your outer
beauty is being fake. As long as you are comfortable, you are good to go.
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